Some Women Don’t Like Casual Sex

1. Casual sex is usually on a man’s terms.

2. Casual sex is always about him getting off.

3. Casual sex lacks passion.

5. Some women like being Ms. Right, not Ms. Right Now. A lot of sexually empowered women want to maintain their autonomy but don’t want to feel like a stand-in until something better comes around. Owning one’s sexuality and takes a lot of pride and involves a lot of ego. A lot of independent women want their fuck buddy to think that they’re hot and desirable and not just available.

via 5 Reasons Why Some Women Don’t Like Casual Sex .

I skipped #4 because I judge myself rather than believing I need religion to tell me right and wrong.

This is a great list. Several things I’ve thought all put together. It’s not just casual sex, but that casual sex is all men seem to offer even when they claim or promise they want more.

That doesn’t leave you feeling very happy if you don’t want to be yet another Ms. Right Now.

10 Texts You Can Send to Make Her Day

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  • I’m giving you a massage tonight.
  • Just thinking about how gorgeous you are.
  • I. Love. You.
  • I want to kiss you all over.
  • I’m picking you up after work.
  • The rest of the evening is a surprise.
  • What I would give to be holding you right now.
  • You’re incredible. In case I haven’t told you that lately.
  • I’m still thinking about how radiant you looked this morning.
  • You are the sexiest woman I’ve ever known.
  • I adore you.

I know you can do better than my list and I want to help all the hapless men out there whose idea of a sexy text is: “What r u up 2? LOL.”

via Dear Men, Here Are 10 Texts You Can Send the Woman in Your Life Right Now to Make Her Day – xoJane.

Why does romance have to be dead? I can remember being at work and imagining I had someone who would send me a note like this. That was before mobile phones so, of course, my note would have been delivered along with flowers (or in person).

On the other hand… I was a client in an office when a full bouquet of flowers were delivered to one of the men there. They were from his girlfriend, not for any special reason. I’ve never forgotten how touched he was, even a little emotional.

So, romance is not dead and romance is not just for men or women to be the givers. Anyone in love can instigate some romance. For no special reason at all. Just show them they are special – that’s the reason.

What’s So Sexy About Your Name?

I like personality quizzes online. They don’t mean anything really but they can give you a nice pick-me-up.


You Are Fanciful Sexy

You are sexy because you are very dreamy. You are often lost in a lush fantasy.You are a sincere and devoted partner. You are attracted to troubled souls.You will do anything for the person you love, and in the bedroom, you aim to please.Once you fall for someone, you’re hooked. You give all of yourself to make the relationship work.Of all the types, you’re the most likely to have a secret fantasy life.

And for you, your fantasy life can be more real than your actual life at times.

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