Serve Her With a Romantic, Luxurious Shower

One of the traditional romantic and sensual things a submissive male can do for his Dominant woman is provide a bath. Set out (or buy her new) soaps, lotions, scrub brush and so on. Pay attention to what she likes so you won’t get it wrong when the time comes for you to please her.

However, what does a poor boy do when his Dominant woman does not care for taking a bath? What if she is a shower only type? I myself, far prefer a steamy, hot shower to becoming waterlogged in a bath tub. The only plus I can see to it is soaking off some skin cells and reading a good book. But, I’d rather scrub off after the shower and read in a cosy coffee shop or an even cosier bed.

Does this mean a boy can’t please his Woman? Of course not, silly boys.

Instead of planning for her to have a long soak you plan a nice scrub. Get her a new bath brush. Yes, she may already have one in the shower or the bathroom. (If so, see that as a bonus in that you will know what to get her when you shop for a new brush). Find a brush with a nice long handle and if you don’t know what kind of bristles she likes find something that will give her a scrub but not hurt her lovely skin.

Next, find her some scented shower soap. This is not the same as soap for the bath. Bath soap is designed to sit in the water and not dry out the skin. Shower soap (or gel) lathers quicker and is meant to be washed off quickly rather than sit on the skin. Assume she has sensitive skin. Better to be have shower soap for sensitive skin and be wrong rather than finding out she has sensitive skin when she is all itchy or worse. You can get lovely smelling soaps for sensitive skin at places like the Body Shop. Find others by looking around, paying attention to where she already shops, or just ask her where she gets the soap she uses.

What scent does she like? Pick something she does not already have, but might like to try. If you know she likes lemony scents, get something citrus. If you know she likes floral, try wildflower scents. That should be simple enough to figure out.You may get the same scent for shampoo and conditioner or something similar. Make sure the shampoo is also a good quality in case she does have sensitive skin. Don’t get one which is very perfumy unless you know she uses something like that already. She could have allergies to perfume or any very strong scent. You may also pick up a body lotion, thinking along the same lines. Does she use a pumice stone or something else to slough off the skin at the bottom of her feet? Find out.

Every woman likes a different order to her shower. This is something you will have to find out as you go along. Be prepared. Have the shower soap, shampoo, conditioner, scrub brush and some lotion if she uses that ready. Bring it all into the bathroom and display it for her to see. She may prefer to shower without your help. Don’t argue, but you could offer to scrub her back if she wishes. This gives her a chance to decide if after all you could be useful as it isn’t easy to reach her own back for a good scrub. But, the long handled brush does help so she will be fine without you if that is her choice. Don’t push it! One of you is the submissive and it is NOT her.

If she does allow you to scrub her with the brush pour a little soap on the brush (or on her skin if she prefers) and brush her skin gently. Start with the back as this is a sensual area which gives you a fairly even surface to practice on. Take come time to find out how to stroke her skin. How hard or soft, which direction or is it best done in circles? Experiment and ask her what she likes. Next, scrub her legs and arms. Only work inward to her chest and belly when she signifies that she wishes you to do so. If you get this far don’t forget to scrub under her breasts not just the breasts themselves. This is a sensual shower but still a shower. She wants to come out of this as clean and fresh as if she had cleaned herself.

Have the shampoo and conditioner ready when she wants to wash her hair. She may prefer to do this first. If you wash her hair you should make sure the shampoo gets a good lather and once it does, massage her scalp. Rinse out the shampoo, it may need to be applied a second time to get a good lather and clean the hair well enough. The conditioner will have instructions for how long it needs to sit on the hair. Read them ahead of time and follow them. Rinse the hair well of all conditioner and shampoo. If the conditioner has worked well you should be able to carefully and gently finger comb her hair while still in the shower. This will make the job of combing out after the shower much, much easier.If she wants you to provide more service she will let you know. Don’t even ask her. Let her take the lead. You are there to give service, not take it.

If you have scrubbed her all over, including her face (using a washcloth). Step aside and begin putting everything away, or at least make it tidy on the bathroom counter. Stand ready for her to come out, holding a towel and have another on hand should she wish one for her hair.If she wants you to dry her off with the towel ask if she would like her skin to be rubbed or just daintily patted dry.

After the shower she may like the lotion or a pumice stone for her feet. You should have those prepared and set out for her as well. It may be your next service to apply the lotion or pumice stone for her. If not, stand outside the bathroom, out of the way until she calls for you or tells you to move elsewhere. You may dry and comb or brush her hair. Chances are this will not be something you can do without some previous training.