What Can you Do with the Peekaboo Tie?

This tie (see below) has so much more potential. What little secret would you add to your boy’s tie? Not a pin-up girl. A submissive boy needs a different kind of secret, peekaboo. Use your imagination, make it personal, customized for just your boy.

If you sew, find a tie pattern and make it from scratch. Adds that extra touch when you can pick out the fabric and pattern too.

My ideas for inside the tie include:

  • miniature handcuffs (very small and not likely to cause a rip in the tie fabric)
  • a fabric blindfold, carefully folded flat but easy to pull out for use later
  • a special note (love note, instructions, reminders, helpful suggestions, etc.)
  • a photo of yourself, or one of him especially dressed and posed to please you
  • an image of an activity which makes him blush (could be scanned and printed onto fabric, or paper)

What other ideas does this give you?

I like to think of things just a little shocking. Think of him wearing his tie on a windy day. As it flips and twists here and there in the breeze what secrets might it reveal? You might give him a new tie pin (to keep his tie in place) but not right away.

Found on eBay:

A Well Kept Man

It’s weird, but this makes him look more like a woman than men dressing up as women.

We get so focused on women being just parts. These parts in particular. I guess when the focus is the same parts for a male I still have the association.

Also, I don’t see all the cosmetics, frills and such as being something that makes a woman.  I don’t wear make-up myself. Does anyone else get that feeling from this image? Or, will I get more comments about how hateful I am? (Still makes me laugh a little).

Source: Mister Kristofer

Gay men BDSM sites often have good fantasy fare. But, overall it’s more fun to watch than to try to do it myself. Something like this would be fun for awhile but… for all the time it would take to get him into this, I don’t think the fun (for me) would be enough to make it worthwhile. Still, leaving him that way awhile (not unsupervised!) would probably give him a lot of subspace time. Especially if he knew I was still around but didn’t know what I was up to. I could be washing dishes but he could imagine I was up to all kinds of more interesting (for him) things. I could have fake phone conversations to really get him thinking, the mind fuck.