To Ignore or Not to Ignore…

Guys, you are not entitled to a response. We don’t even know you. We’re not trying to be rude, we are just trying to be efficient and to protect ourselves from immature, unwarranted insults.

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I noticed that men who had written a longer note tended to be upset/ angrier when she was not interested. This is interesting to me because I tend to put time into writing a note if I’m interested in a man online. I try to appreciate the directness when someone isn’t interested back, it’s not easy.

But, I do get annoyed with men who send notes without actually reading my profile to know who I am and then get pissy when I’m not interested.

Overall it’s better to send a note back I think. We used to have auto scripts we could post on IRC. That could be an idea dating sites and forums should start using. A quick auto reply would give a response rather than leaving people feel ignored. How they deal with a negative response is up to them. Hope they can handle it with some maturity and grace.

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These are the questions from A Slip of a Girl:

My questions are:

1.) I know it is difficult (understatement!), but what is your favorite type (bras, panties, slips, etc.) of intimate apparel?

Other than soft and slinky nightgowns I guess I would pick bras as my favourite. If they fit well.

2.) Imagine there are only three pieces of the most stunning lingerie style left on the sales rack… One is too small, one is too large, the third is your size — but not in a color you like. Which one do you choose & why?

I’d consider my budget at that point and decide not to get anything until it really suited me. Or, if the budget was in good shape I would choose to get the one in a larger size but the right colour. I’ve often made decisions like that, just not buying anything until it was just right for me.

3.) If you could have one wish granted by today’s lingerie makers, what would it be?

Far more colours and better quality in plus sizes. I’m not a big fan of black, or white.

4.) Do you and your partner have any disagreements over lingerie? If so, what is the biggest one?

I have no partner. I expect he would like whatever I wanted to wear, when I wanted to wear it. There should be some perks to being a Domme.

5.) What’s the most important thing you have learned or discovered here at A Slip Of A Girl?

You!

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