Category: Closet Exhibitionist

Do You Know Where Those Photos of Your Naughty Bits Are?

One thing women (and likely men) don’t think about when they contribute naughty photos of themselves to another site is the distribution of those photos. I don’t mean the obvious – someone views the photo on the site and copies it for themselves. But, what happens when the database of the site is hacked and someone takes all those photos. Now it’s not an individual person, it’s a business. Your photo could turn up anywhere online, or in print, or other offline locations.

I added photos to Voyeurweb and then gave up on using the site because I couldn’t figure out how to load more photos or anything else. Who needs the frustration I decided, so I left and didn’t think about them again. Today, I have an email telling me the Voyeurweb site was taken over my someone else and the database was moved to Voyeurcloud now. I went to Voyeurcloud, it looks a lot like Voyeruweb. Then I went to Voyeurweb and read a note about how their database was hacked and all the content taken – but they were happy to report they were able to reload it all.

So, how many different sites now have the photos I originally contributed to Voyeurweb… Far more than I gave permission to use my photos.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day

My first for Sinful Sunday. Sinful Sunday

Closet Exhibitionist

Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Monday July 28, 2003  

I’ve denied it for a long time but, I have to finally admit, I’m a closet exhibitionist. Even as I type this I’m sitting in front of the computer screen with the fan blowing over the skin of my bare back and my breasts lit by the computer glow.

Why? I’m not sure. I like the daring of it, that excites me. But, it’s a calculated risk. Just like flashing on IRC (Internet Relay Chat) or standing in front of a high rise window topless or scantily clad. There is a thrill in being naughty, in performing for an audience and in shocking your significant other if you have one handy.

So, yes, I’m a closet exhibitionist. You won’t find me on a nude beach but you may catch me changing clothes in the car. I don’t fix my shirt if it slips down and my bra peeps through. I don’t feel concerned about exposed cleavage, in fact I admit I revel in being a bit revealing. It’s like taking a dare, accepting a challenge no one expects you to take.

Would you ever take off your clothes in public? Ever play truth or dare and risk being dared to publicly strip? Does it excite or terrify you? I don’t think it’s so much about body image as it is about freedom.

Have fun.

Boudoir Photography

I read an ad for a photographer offering a discount if you arrange a boudoir photo session next week. I guess they are hoping for quantity. I’d like to go but I’m already busy. Besides I’d need more time to think about what I want to wear, shave areas I don’t always care to shave, that sort of thing. But, it would be fun to take some sensual, sexy photos with a professional some time. Doing it yourself is fun but can’t compare to someone who knows how to use lighting and posing to your advantage.

Wanton Wednesday

Just found this today while looking for something else, not at all related to erotica.

Have you found Wanton Wednesday? Have you participated? I might. Taking erotic photos of yourself is challenging and arousing too.

I am a Closet Exhibitionist

Happy (belated) Valentines Day

I noticed I had lost a button on my sweater. Gave me kinky thoughts about taking a photo and sending it to Stephen who I have been talking to since meeting through CollarMe in December. We have not met yet but I began this blog with the idea of keeping ideas and thoughts here to share with him later if things work out. There is something very stimulating (for me) about taking photos of myself like this. I don’t pass them around like business cards or anything. But, it is fun for me and now I will be thinking about reading some erotica later tonight.