So you Think You’re a FemDom?

For those who are confused… this is not serving her. This is a professional/ paid FemDom at work.

How can you tell? For one thing, the biggest thing… how is this serving HER? She’s wearing uncomfortable boots, her butt is hanging out and she’s spending her time standing over him doing nothing when she could be enjoying a nice coffee and a good book.

This is so not right. When will they ever get it?

I would have a man drink from a doggie bowl on the floor. But, it would be his own personal doggie bowl. It would not be shared with any other animal. I would not be standing over him, uncomfortable. I might wear boots, but I have a great pair of winter boots that I actually do ┬álike to wear. I’d wear whatever I happened to be wearing that day. If I wanted to change it would not be something showing my ass. How dignified is that?

I’d likely have him make coffee for me before he stripped down. You don’t really want a naked man in the kitchen. Probably violates health codes of some kind. I’d pull over a chair at the very least. Actually, you wouldn’t need to stand over him, just move him to where you want to be sitting. Bring along a long handled object, like a broom, you can use to prod him with if he slacks off or slows down in his task.

Most of all, this should not be about you (the FemDom/ Domme) standing there like a paid escort or call girl. He says he wants to serve you, so make sure he does. When he finishes his water bowl he can load up the dishwasher, hand wash the pots and pans and then take out the trash. Any other chores he can do for you? He should be the one to ask. If you have to remind him… well, if you’re holding a whip or have a spanking implement you might as well get some use out of it. At your own discretion of course, you don’t use a whip if you don’t know what you are doing with it.

Don’t spend time on punishing him with a spanking if that isn’t what you want to do. Instead, let him serve you. Did watching him lick clean the doggie bowl turn you on? Then (if his mouth suits you) let him lick you next. This is one more reason to just have water in the doggie bowl, that way you do know a bit about where that tongue has been lately.

Later, he can finish the night by turning the radio on and locking up the house before he lies down on the rug in the bedroom like a good doggie.

I like romance, bondage and men in submission. Writing adult fiction and non-fiction online. Currently writing for Sex Kitten. I wrote a weekly column, Bait and Switch on Adult BackWash too.

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